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		<title>How do you treat your following?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The question do you deserve your following might sound a bit odd. After all, if it is a followerbase like on twitter that you have, people have the option to unfollow you once they feel mistreated. Nevertheless it is a good thing to stop and think about how you treat the people that follow you online. ]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.gyurka.nl/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/following.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-205" title="following" src="http://www.gyurka.nl/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/following.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="160" /></a>The question &#8220;do you deserve your following&#8221; might sound a bit odd. After all, if it is a followerbase like on twitter that you have, people have the option to unfollow you once they feel mistreated. Nevertheless it is a good thing to stop and think about how you treat the people that follow you online. Yes, of course there might be real life friends and other contacts represented in your following, but quite often posts on how to deal with your following tend to lean towards &#8220;what do you get from it&#8221;  side.</p>
<p>Thus I thought it was nice to <a href="http://www.boalt.com/blog/2010/01/do-you-deserve-your-social-media-followers/" target="_blank">come across this blogpost</a>, asking how you really treat your followers. It&#8217;s a sad thing really, that posts like these have to be made, but I do think they are necessary, even though the answer to what a &#8220;good way&#8221; to treat them is migth be easy.<span id="more-204"></span></p>
<p>The answer I think really is quite simple. Even though I&#8217;m not religious I&#8217;d like to quote from the Bible for some guidance to basic etiquette:</p>
<blockquote><p>Do to others as you would have them do to you<br />
<em>Luke 6:31</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, this old piece of wisdom still holds value, especially on the web. As Garret points out in his post; you&#8217;re not dealing with contacts (or just followers, for that matter) you are dealing with real people. As said;  I think it is a bit sad we have to think about how we should treat other people, but fortunately there are blogposts like these to remind us just a little.</p>
<p>Not just sometimes, but quite often, new media really <strong>is</strong> that simple. Hold on for just a moment and think about older, every examples of how to deal with people, products or anything else and you will see that even new things might rely on old principles.</p>


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